Problem Keeping Music Playlist in Alphabetical Order on iPhone 8 After Connecting to Windows 10 PC

iOS and iPadOS

I have created a mucic playlist on my iPhone 8 and have arranged the songs in alphabetical order by title. I have also selected this in my music settings to be sorted by title, not by artist. However, every time I connect my iPhone to my Windows 10 PC to back it up or just charge my phone, it changes the order of the songs in the playlist. I find this to be extremely frustrating! I'm using the latest update of iTunes on my computer and iOS 11.4.1 on my iPhone. I also have my preferences set to prevent devices from syncing automatically when connected. I've also tried the copy to play order command in the applications menu and the order doesn't change. Please help!